Sunday, November 12, 2006

The beginning of a wonderful journey

I usually think Drew and I have had a long road together, but the truth is it is only just beginning. I rarely take time to just sit and think about all that has happened. In highschool I knew that he was different (and no, not weird), but he stood out from everyone else. It didn't take me long to realize that he had the Spirit and was very religious. I didn't know much about mormons, but boy did I learn. It didn't take too long before he had peaked my interest, and I had to know more. I began investigating for a long.. long time, and learned soo much. Drew and I became best friends and really built a wonderful relationship.

When we went off to college I was able to be on my own and really figure out what I wanted to do, and follow what I knew was true. I began to have a testimony of my own and find great joy in truth. I remember telling Liz one time that Drew gave me wings to fly on my own. (That might sound cheesy but it's the best analogy that I have) It is so hard for me to think of my life with out the Gospel. Drew had the courage to open his mouth and share the most important thing in his life. I am forever grateful for him and all he has given me. I didn't know what would happen between us, but I knew that he would always be an important person in my life. And it turns out he will play an even bigger part in my life than I knew.

During his mission we were able to write to one another and share each others testimonies. It was such a wonderful thing to share part of his mission, he was such an amazing missionary who gave me a second wind many times to push harder and serve the best I knew how. I was looking at my journal recently and discovered that Drew is mentioned several times, and I am always talking about what a great servant of the Lord he is, and it is such an important thing for me to know that he puts the Lord first in his life. That is very attractive to me.

I was very nervous for him to come home from his mission, and I had no idea what the future would hold. The first week was very awkward to say the least. I was thinking "Oh man this is gonna take some time." Then we went on a few vacations, had a few conversations, and things were moving along quite nicely. I saw a new and improved Drew. He was wonderful before, but he was amazing now. I thought, oh boy I'm falling for him once again, but this time was much different. It's like the relationship could be whole, nothing was missing anymore. We were both on the same page, we were striving for the same things, we grew up a bit (although I have always been really mature, just jokin) and I looked at him in a whole new light. I couldn't get over the fact that we could be "together," that he wasn't going to leave on a mission, that I could hold his hand, and yes kiss him:) It was such a fun and exciting time.

He left for school and I realized how sad I was, I thought I would be fine I had done it plenty of times, but once again it was different. I knew that I wanted to be with this guy forever! I fell in love with him more every day. I love everything about him, even his annoyingness. I honestly can't think of a better person, and a better match for me. I know that he will be an amazing husband, because he is so willing to serve me and he posseses many qualities such as, patience, love, hope, humility, etc.. I hope that I can be half the spouse that he will be to me.

9 comments:

Mark said...

Kristen,
You know how much we all love you but this post says it all about what kind of a person you are. I am so proud to be able to say you are my daughter (or will be) I am such a lucky person to have such wonderful children and for each one of them to have found such wonderful spouses. Wow, I'm blown away by that.

You are annoying I will have to admit but now I will no longer have to let you win at ping pong or anything else for that matter as I didn't want to hurt the chances for you and Drew and all. Now it is no holds barred baby!!

Love you two,
Mickey

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Goose said...

I'm sorry about all the deletes but I kept posting stuff as dad. Anyway, who is this guy that you are talking about Kristen? He sounds pretty darn great. I think I met him once and he wasn't as good as your making him out to be, but I won't argue.

And don't listen to dad, you are only a little annoying in a cute sort of way:) Just keep beating him a ping pong and you will slowly climb his charts of annoyingness and then you will over take me (in his book but not in mine). Thanks for all the flattery, I love you.

Love,
Your most manly man

Danalin said...

Kristen,

Good to have you aboard! Not only on the blog, but in the family!!!

You know, when I joined the Foster Fam, I wasn't quite sure what the relationship between you and Drew had been. I asked Ty, but he was very evasive and said that you'd been friends. I remember, though, when we went snowboarding and had a conversation that made me think 'this is more than a friendship...there's hope here for a future'. I was very excited about that because I knew you would make a great sister-in-law. I didn't want to get my hopes up too much. Turns out, though, that if I had, they wouldn't have been crushed! :) And when I met Drew I knew that he was totally worthy of you. For me, Drew is the newer member of the family.

I am SO excited for the two of you! Marriage is the best - such a blessing. And being married to a Foster man is so, so wonderful! Mickey and Margaret did such a great job raising these men and now we (their wives) get to reap the benefits of that. Can't wait to see you soon! Sure love you!

Tankfos said...

Kristen,
You have found yourself a good man.

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Tyler said...

Kristen,

Welcome to the most annoying family in the world. You fit right in! :-) Maybe we should start to have most annoying couple contests. I nominate Drew and Kristen as the reigning champions!

Ty

Mark said...

Welcome to the blogosphere, Kristen. Nice to have you on board.

I think the clincher in Drew's and your relationship was
around Christmas time 4 years ago, when our whole family totally messed with your mind with the whole "12 Days Before Christmas" thing. Think about it: wigs, skull masks, a mysterious Randy Christopherson, a laser pointer, and the Goose in on the whole thing. I mean, we were inside your head so bad . . .

Actually, come to think of it, it's amazing you still associated with us after that, but I guess it gave you a sneak peak at the crazy Foster Fam.

You are a perfect match for the Goose, and we are ecstatic to have you as a sister. Welcome aboard!